To live joyfully, you must be ruin-able . You must accept that you can lose the money, the reputation, the relationship. This sounds grim, but it is the ultimate liberation. Once you accept that ruin is possible, you stop clinging. And a person who does not cling moves like water—fast, powerful, and free.
It is calculative, cunning, and obsessed with security. It creates logical walls to hide behind, seeking safety in fixed formulas and societal approval. COURAGE -The joy of living dangerously-.pdf
There is a physiological reason why the word "joy" is attached to this PDF. Dopamine, adrenaline, and endorphins are not released by routine. They are released by novelty and perceived threat . To live joyfully, you must be ruin-able