On an international level, 1991 was the year the World Health Organization (WHO) began pushing for "Health-Promoting Schools." In Belgium, the political landscape shifted. The (officially part of broader health reforms) did not mandate sex education nationwide, but it did remove legal barriers preventing schools from teaching it comprehensively.

A critical assessment of the 1991 approach reveals a stark dichotomy in pedagogical goals. Education for boys was oriented toward control —managing unexpected erections, understanding nocturnal emissions, and avoiding unplanned fatherhood (though the latter received less emphasis than for girls). Education for girls was oriented toward containment —managing the menstrual cycle discreetly, avoiding pregnancy, and defending against reputational harm.

The most important relationship you navigate during puberty isn't with a crush, but with yourself. Learning to respect your own needs and values ensures that when you do decide to start a romantic storyline, it’s one where you feel safe, heard, and valued.

Emphasize mutual respect, trust, honesty, and individuality. A partner should complement one's life, not consume it.